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Tuesday, August 23, 2016

On Being Alone And Independent

Should make a comeback with a happy and lighter note but I need to let this out.

I think I am so used to being alone and independent that I find it is hard to live together with my family again. Don't get me wrong. I love my family, I really do, but after living independently and alone (with my friends) for the past 4 years, it is hard for me to be dependent (again) on my parents and sisters.

I am so used to get things done according to my time, my ways, and my styles. However, when living together with my family, I need to do things according to their time, their ways, and their styles. And honestly, I kind of feel suffocated by that fact. Hopefully, I will feel better with time.

Oh well, I just need to learn compromising again!

14 comments:

  1. I feel you sister. I've been staying away from home at least half of my age. But, I think it is okay to think that we have this free time to at least give something back to them. Compromising like you said. 😀

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  2. I feel you sister. I've been staying away from home at least half of my age. But, I think it is okay to think that we have this free time to at least give something back to them. Compromising like you said. 😀

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  3. kalau duduk dgn family mmng apa2 pun kena ikut masa diorang. takpelah one day nnti kak farah dh biasalah tu :)

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  4. Bertabahlah.
    Mungkin sebab baru balik kot, jadi tak biasa lagi.
    Tapi kalau rasa ada menuju ke arah yang lebih mudarat, bincang elok-elok untuk asing luar sendirian. Tak bermakna putus hubungan, hanya tidak mahu menuju kemudaratan :)

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  5. chill and be cool. berdikari nie bagus. cuma hargailah masa dengan family. no one can replace them. they always there for u, so u need to be always there for them too. all the best kak farah :)

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  6. hehe..akak selalu terfkir macam tu.lama hidup bujang, makan, tidor, buat apa sukati sendiri if suddenly kena ikut timing 'orang lain', susah jugak ek..

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  7. eh... I thought im the one yg rasa ceni alaaa TT_TT
    Qila duduk sebulan dkt uia pun bila balik mcm rimas apatah lagi kak farah yg super lama dkt sanaaa haih.

    But yes, i do feel u kak farah :') Sometimes rs mcm geram but what to geram for?
    U have everything you could ask for, but yeah. Rs mcm hm entah! That mixed feelings is so creepy lah!!! Hahaha.

    Takpe kak farah, you'll get used to it. Take care okai? <3

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  8. mee tooo i felt the same thing :(
    but sometimes i missed my family and i wanted to get back

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  9. Saya pernah jugak rasa macam ni. Tapi alhamdulillah, semuanya baik2 sahaja...

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  10. The keyword there is last one ...
    "Compromising".
    Diaorang pun banyak tolerate dengan kita masa kita kecik sampai kita besar ... hihihi...

    Good luck.

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  11. Happy independence day ...hihihi

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  12. haha.. samalah kita.. lima tahun dok sendiri sampai jadi janggal bila berkumpul reramai.. skang dah kahwin kena adjust balik masa tu. hihi.

    p/s : pe kabor tuan belog.. lama tak singgah cni.. ^_^

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  13. Salam Jumaat…Kak Sally singgah ni haaa~ Give time to both you and your family! hopefully everything gonna be okay soon!

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  14. Akk kalau boleh taknak lama sangat dekat dengan family, jauh pun taknak lama sangat. Cenggitu lah. Family ni akan ada dengan kita bila ups and downs, kawan2 tak pasti lagi dik.

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